Friday, October 19, 2007

Keeping it Real...

Hey!
So not much happened today...but if anything happens or I suddenly remember something that happened today that miraculously you guys might find interesting I will post it later on tonight.

Right now I have a few things on my mind..

1. Something Sam said on one of her posts.
2. A comment left on Rachels blog before she left.

I really hope these people don't mind me quoting them, talking about them etc..

I guess I had better explain.
First I'll start with the comment on Rachels blog:
Well some of you might have seen it but some of you might not, right before she left she was getting some hatemail and one of the comments was posted by an anoymous commentor who said something along the lines of:

"There is no need to lie on a blog"

And I believe that 110%. Also something Sam mentioned, she was talkinng about how when she writes her problems in her blogs, the problems seem to fade and I have realised as I have started to write things about Callum and David in this blog things haven't fixed themselves but I feel heaps better about it.

So this blog is going to become a bit more indepth, not much is going to change,I will still write about my life, guy problems etc.. but I will talk about them with more of my thoughts and things like that so I can really get them out there, if you know what I mean.

Some of you might think I am talking all mushy or crap (excuse the language) but I just think that I will do this, not really for everyone else, but for me...I apologise for any selfishness you may sense in that statement but I promise I am not trying to show a selfish side of me, just the real me..

Sorry if you think this change is a bad idea but like I said..I'm doing it for me..


Kimmiixox

NOTICE: I thought I would ask a question to the people that comment here as well..

"How many times is appropriate to break up then get back together?"

If you coud answer that, thanks so much

4 comments:

leesh_xx said...

Hey i think its great you feel open to talk in-depth on here. I do. And trust me it helps so much. I dont think theres a certain amount of times for breaking up and getting back together again but obviously if its reached many many times then there must be some sort of problem with the way they are communitcating which would maybe just require some work. SO i dont really think there is a number to put onn that =]

Laugh&Smile


leesh

Anonymous said...

Heya Kimmi Kox!
This post was veeeewy interesting. Your decision to start writing about your thoughts and feelings is a great one, indeed. I hope you have fun with it and it helps you in some way (I'm sure it will).

Hmmm, well about your question.... I really don't think that anyone can say a number of times; however, I do think that like Leesha said, if you keep breaking up and coming back together constantly, there must be something wrong with the way you view the relationship and your communication skills. I'd say that instead of going through that whole cycle, it's better to just resolve the matters at hand while you're still together and not just take the easy way out.

That is my ramble for today. Hehehehee.

Can't wait to read your new posts!

PF Nelly

Marri said...

xo hi hi xo
It depends how the two people feel about each other.
I'd say 3 times
xo bi bi xo

Christine Woodward said...

howdy!
its not selfish to talk about yourself and all your thought and everything!! this is YOUR blog.
and yea that thing about lieing on a blog i believe that too!!
lol.
well im not sure how many times its appropriate to break up and get back together but ive been out with the same guy three times, i guess it just depends how you feel about eachother.
i'll be reading you selfish blogs!!
KIDDING!!
i'll be reading =]