Hi!
well this morning I decided to check for comments and reading them and seeing how both Sammy and LilMizMari both think that looks take a fair part in being attracted to someone and it really made me think about it...but then I pushed the thought aside and took a huge panadol for my headache. Then earlier this afternoon I was watching video blogs on youtube and I came across one and it was a guy talking about what he looked for in a girl so out of boredom and possibly a bit of curiousity I watched it..and he said the same thing..
he said that he had a friend whos a girl who emotionally and through interests and etc.. is perfect for him but he is not physically attracted to her so he coudld not enforce a romantic reletionship with her..and again and again this idea kept going through my head and I just kept thinking about it, about how so many people focus on looks..
some do a little bit
some do alot
but as I look back..I don;t think I have known anyone who never judges by looks..
even I judge by looks without noticing it...it's like an instinct we have that looks matter.
When I say this I'm not trying to say that you guys are shallow cause' your not at all and if anyone says you are, then welcome to a group of about 6 billion people who live on planet earth and most likely judge by looks much much more then you do.
Well I think I have rambled on enough, thanks for your thoughts!
Kimmiixox
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yea i know i focus on looks, but then i talk to people then thats how i figure out if i like them
its about looks but not all about looks i guess is what im trying to say.
ohwell.
have a good week
xxo
Yeah, very true.
It's not that I don't like people who I think are ugly (not that I think anyone I know IS ugly, but just saying).
It's not that I look at someone and immediately think I know them EXACTLY. Or much at all, for that matter.
And it's not that I make friends and like guys purely based on their looks. But in some ways... it does matter. Am I right?
I love my friends because of their personality, not their looks. But I like guys for both. If the guy has a terrible personality, then I'm probably not going to like him, but then, if he looks terrible, I'm probably not going to like him either. Confusing stuff.
I guess it's a liiiittle shallow to think looks are important, but basically, practically everyone I know does it.
Mehhh. It's definitely something I'll think about for a while now. Things that make you think. Hahaha.
Alrighty, I shall be going.
Peace!
<3 <3 ,3
~Sammy
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OMG when I read the first part I thougght you thought I was shallow. I would've blown up if you did that.
Oohhh I MIGHT post a picture of miiself on mii blog soon so watch out.
That's it.
xo bi bi xo
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